Things in the world that make me sad.

This past weekend my girlfriend's fetlife account was hacked. Someone decided to go into her account block many of her friends, change her name and delete all of her groups from her account. Why this bothers me someone invaded her space to get to her I think.

Why the negativity....

I see on fetlife making comments ranting about what others do Why the negativity.... I now have someone commenting on my blog that seems to enjoy saying bad things about me. Of course this person has never met me or any of my friends. Apparently I am bald, fat, have no friends and little cock according to this person) This person is correct on one thing. I do have a "learning disability" I am dyslexic. This does not bother me as much as my girlfriend being hacked or people bickering about each other, but still there is nothing but negativity

Why the negativity....

LETS BE POSITIVE

I hope everyone that reads this can find something positive to say about someone you don't like. Or better yet do something nice for someone you don't like. I should try to do this too. Positive makes the world a better place. Positive makes me happy.

A New Year. A New Goal

One of those goals is to keep up my blog :P. This is something I have neglected this past year. I have had the best of times this year, but I have had good times and those are times I will not forget. But right now I am in a career that is OK. I am feeling as if I should do a little more with myself. Here is what I want to accomplish for 2013 *Get my passport -- I love to travel... why not. *Create something -- I like being creative... time to make something. *keep with the workout routine *try to explore something small everyday... Learn and discovery is always a good thing *take more pictures -- I always forget to take pics *try to be the best I can be **THE BIG GOAL. Gain a new skill to a novice level. Here is a list Learn to PLC program Learn to write Macros Learn to speak German Learn to read Japanese Learn to speak better Spanish Be capable of programming a robot Most of these have nothing to do with kink but figured I would post it here to see what everyone thinks about it. I want to do one of them. My adventures in kink continue to be amazing so I should have some stuf to present here soon!!

Meeting Local Kinksters

I have always been a fan of meeting people in real life rather than on a chatroom. First of all I consider meeting in person the real thing. Chatrooms and instant messenger can be misleading when talking to someone else. You assume a person is telling the truth. I understand of course that people are iffy about going out first hand to tell the world they are kinky, so I do think the chat rooms have there spot. I do like sites such as collarme and FetLife bridge this gap. Once I find some cool people to meet, I meet them.

I did end up meeting another kinkster this week. Of course we keep things vanilla to start and grab a bite to eat at a local pizza joint, Lillys Pizza. (Damn good pizza if your in the Raleigh area!!!). I consider this a golden opportunity to network my ideas and they network there ideas. Just two like minded people hanging out. Of course finding someone to play with is fun too but not why I meet and greet. I consider the fact I have gained a like-minded friend a success. If anyone would like to share meet ups they have had in the past please feel free to comment.

The start of a new era.

This first blog post I have ever done. I am not a writer but I feel I can share my expressions with other people through this medium. To express my ideas. The devices I create in my head. And the real life interactions I do to make fantasy into reality (consensually of course). I have large interest in BDSM and plan to focus on that in this blog. I hope to share many pics and thoughts with everyone in the near future.

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